Surrogacy Surrogacy is a process in which the surrogate mother is inseminated with the sperm of the intended/natural father. She is genetically related to the child which she carries for the intended parent. Requirements You must have given birth to at least one child and be: Between the ages of 21 and 35. In good general health, disease-free, and willing to test accordingly. A non-smoker. Mature and responsible. Committed to the surrogacy process.